Diving Headfirst Into Your Family Tree

Do you ever wonder about where your ancestors came from, and what struggles they had to endure in their life’s voyage?

The journey of discovering your roots and your family history can be quite fascinating and exciting.

It can also be a daunting and time-consuming task.

A simple Google search will lead you to a vast array of websites, promising to give you the answers to the ever-popular question, “where did I come from?”

But how do you know which websites are actually worth your time (and money)? And once you are on those websites, how can you be sure that the information you are finding is accurate?

How do you know if the history you find is really YOUR family history?

Here is a list of some of the most popular genealogy web sites and our reviews on which make the grade, and which fail to deliver.

Classes

One important thing to keep in mind when diving into your family history research is that there is a definite learning curve. It takes time (and experience) to figure out how and where to locate the information you are seeking.

If you have endless time to dedicate to this task, then learning by trial and error may be the right method for you.

If not, you might want to consider checking out an online class or two, to help you learn the tricks of the trade.

While there are thousands of options out there, here are a few free ones that are a great starting point:

  • YouTube

    Type “genealogy for beginners,” and you will get THOUSANDS of videos with tips on how to start your ancestry research.
  • Family Search Learning Center

    Signing up for a free account on this website will give you access to hundreds of great webinars; many of catered to specific areas of research (Military Records, Colonial Immigration, etc.).
  • Ancestry.com

    Sign up for an ancestry account, you will have access to their instructional videos, which help you learn how to navigate their site and make the most out of your membership.
  • Brigham Young University Independent Study

    Using Adobe Flash Player, the website offers a variety of free online genealogy courses.

Magazines

If ancestry is more than just a passing curiosity for you, a subscription to a genealogy magazine can be a very helpful tool.

Many of these magazines provide insight into different methods of genealogical research, updates on public releases of records, and other valuable information.

Just as there are hundreds of different genealogy websites out there, you will find that there are a large variety of magazines that focus on genealogy and ancestry.

The best magazine for you will really depend on your specific needs, but here are a few that are worth checking out:

  • Family Tree Magazine

    Geared towards more amateur genealogists, this is probably the most well known genealogical magazines out there. It is a fun magazine, full of great personal stories, tips for taking family research trips, and interesting tidbits about different ethnic backgrounds and heritages.
  • National Genealogical Society Quarterly

    This one is a must-have for serious genealogists. The magazine, provided to members of the National Genealogical Society, is chock-full of valuable information, research tips, and up-to-date genealogical news. And, as an added benefit to joining the National Genealogical Society, you will also get access to the plethora of online classes offered by the society.
  • Your Genealogy Today

    Whether you are a novice or a seasoned genealogist, this magazine has something for everyone. The bi-monthly magazine covers everything from DNA research to genealogy tourism.

Hiring a Genealogist

Now, if you are like much of the population and don’t have enough time to invest in really digging deep into your family history, hiring a professional genealogist may be something you’ll want to consider.

Aside from just the time constraints, hiring a professional comes with many other benefits:

  • Experience

    A professional genealogist has experience weeding through thousands of documents and records and is more likely to be able to trace your exact line.
  • Knowledge

    A professional already knows where to find marriage records, locate ship manifestos, and search for military draft cards.
  • Skill

    Most professional genealogists are also very skilled at complex research (which is a necessity, when researching ancestry).
  • Organization

    Sorting through the records of thousands of ancestors takes some serious organizational skills. A professional genealogist knows how to make sense of all that information and compile it in to easy-to-follow reports and diagrams.

Regardless of how you decide to tackle the exciting task of unearthing your family’s history, you are in for a fun ride.

A ride full of fascinating discoveries, beautiful stories, and a new appreciation for how you came to be.

Emojis Delayed by the Coronavirus

The 2019 novel coronavirus has changed our lives a lot in the past couple of months. From transitioning to remote learning and remote working, to wearing a mask in public, it’s amazing how different our lives are now from just three months ago. And it’s crazy to think of the multitude of things that the virus has affected.

In fact, believe it or not, even emojis have been affected by the virus!

Yes, you heard that right…emojis. Those tiny colorful pictographs that have made their way onto our computers and phones, and into our hearts.

According to this article from mashable.com, the Unicode Consortium (a non-profit which takes care of the Unicode Standard, a widely-used standard for character encoding on computers and phones) has announced that the release of Unicode 14.0 has been delayed by 6 months. It seems that the reason behind the delay is because Unicode’s contributors just have too much on their plates right now. And because it generally takes around 8 months for developers to get those adorable emojis into phones, we likely won’t see the new batch until 2022.

There is some good news, though. Unicode 13.0, has not been affected, so we will still be seeing over 100 new emojis this fall.

Good News to Brighten Up Your Day

It’s no secret that people are feeling a bit down these days. With shelter-in-place orders, businesses closing, and news stories that sound like some kind of post-apocalyptic novel, it’s no wonder people are struggling to stay positive.

It is during times like these, though, that it is increasingly important to look for the beauty and good in the world. Thanks to the Good News Network (GNN), positive and inspirational stories from around the globe are just a click away.

The GNN site, which was started in 1997, considers itself to be “an antidote to the barrage of negativity experienced in the mainstream media.” And, after reading through some of the incredible stories highlighted on the site, we can’t say we disagree.

From stories about a dog delivering groceries and meals to the elderly, to tales of anonymous love letters and $2,500 restaurant tips, the articles on this site are sure to bring a smile to your face.

If you’re still looking for proof of goodness in this world after reading through the GNN’s 21,000+ positive news stories, take a look at this wonderful collection of blogs from boredpanda. These three blogs feature incredible pictures and stories of human kindness that will help restore your faith in humanity and remind you that this world really is a beautiful place.

Going Behind the Curtain: FAQ on Publishing and the Legal Issues of Hiring a Ghostwriter

Every year, dozens of civil lawsuits are filed that included allegations of libel or defamation.

Most of the time, these things are obscure cases that never reach the headlines, but nevertheless cost both plaintiffs and defendants sizable sums for legal fees and court costs.

Some cases, though, such as Jesse Ventura’s case against Chris Kyle’s widow or the suit filed by Terry Bollea (aka Hulk Hogan) against Gawker Media, have gained far more notoriety.

The notoriously litigious nature of the United States leaves many would-be authors with plenty of unanswered questions.

Can I write about living people?

Can I quote songs in my manuscript without inviting a copyright suit?

What about pictures do I need to get permission to print those?

We field questions like these every day, and we recognize that any author must navigate plenty of legal pitfalls to be successful.

Below we’ve compiled a list of the most frequently asked legal questions we hear about writing and ghostwriting.

Is the practice of ghostwriting legal?

Yes, absolutely. It’s a great way for leaders and experts to enlist the help of a seasoned writer to help craft and hone their message.

People can’t be great at everything, and while some have fantastic abilities to govern or lead a business, they may not be the most effective at communicating the written word.

At its core, there is some debate as to whether ghostwriting is a form of plagiarism. As David Rothschild, a representative of iThenticate.com, has written, even though ghostwriting is essentially a form of plagiarism, the agreements put in place between authors and ghostwriters provide for the legal consent required for authors to take credit for ghostwritten works.

What items should an author be sure to include in a collaboration agreement with a ghostwriter, to provide legal protection?

This is a complicated question — publishing law constitutes an entire realm of American jurisprudence. However, according to Alan Kaufman, an attorney specializing in publishing law and a former General Counsel to Penguin Books, “one always wants the issues determined upfront in a collaboration agreement, which covers compensation, the grant of rights, late or unsatisfactory delivery, credit, copyright.”

Can a ghostwriter claim that they own the work resulting from our collaboration?

If the issues of credit and copyright are addressed in a collaboration agreement, then a ghostwriter can’t violate that agreement and claim the resulting work. This is why it’s so important that very clear boundaries and expectations be settled upfront.

If structured properly, a collaboration agreement between author and ghostwriter can address all of the above-mentioned items. What’s more, agreements can also include a confidentiality clause or other restrictions against your ghostwriter using any proprietary information that you disclose for their own benefit.

If a ghostwriter, editor, or someone else reviews a book, what keeps them from stealing it?

Per Mr. Kaufman, if you send a work to someone for review, they can’t legally steal it and claim it as their own. “The U.S. Copyright Act states that copyright subsists in whatever is created from the moment of creation. So, copyright protects you.” Most collaboration agreements provide for the author’s ownership of any product resulting from the work of a ghostwriter, meaning that anything a ghostwriter writes while working on the client’s book or article is that client’s property.

These are just some of the legal issues between client and ghostwriter.

In the process of writing, a number of separate considerations need to be made for specific content, including quotes, references, and characterizations.

Here are some of the questions we frequently hear about these more technical aspects of writing, which a professional writer can help to navigate. In today’s world of self-publishing, these concerns are especially relevant.

How can I avoid getting sued if my book or article is about real people?

As many defendants in civil cases will attest, this can be a tricky area to navigate. According to Alan Kaufman, it’s important to understand that “real people are protected in two ways.  First are libel laws, which protect from defamation.  Secondly, private individuals are protected by the laws of privacy.” If a book might be controversial, an author can always have it reviewed by legal counsel to assess their potential liability.

What criteria have the courts historically used to define libel or defamation?

Business attorney and author Helen Sedwick penned the Self-Publisher’s Legal Handbook in 2014, and she speaks in-depth about these issues. As she has written in a detailed post on her website, in order to prove libel, someone must prove that an author maliciously or negligently published a lie about someone who can be identified and that hurts their reputation. If any of these qualifications are unmet, then it isn’t libel. For instance:

If the author publishes something that is true, that’s not libel.

If an author publishes a lie about someone who can’t be identified based on the published material, that doesn’t constitute libel.

If the statement doesn’t actually hurt the subject’s business or career, or hold them up for public hatred or ridicule, then that’s not libel. Simply publishing something offensive or insulting is not sufficient.

What about the invasion of privacy?

This is another subject on which Ms. Sedwick has written in detail. She indicates that privacy laws protect people from having embarrassing or unpleasant information published about them that (in the words of Ms. Sedwick) “is offensive to ordinary sensibilities and not of overriding public interest.” Most importantly, however, the person must have a reasonable expectation of privacy. Public remarks or conduct, in other words, would not be protected by privacy laws. Celebrities and other public figures, it is noted, have little expectation of privacy and (within reason) can usually be written about without their permission.

Can I quote songs in my writing without opening myself up to a lawsuit?

The short answer is yes, if done correctly. Music companies tend to be aggressive litigants, so this is an area where authors need to exercise caution. Attorney Alan Kaufman encourages writers “not to use more than a couplet.”

Can I quote other books?

To a certain degree, quoting other works is considered “fair use.” However, it’s worth noting that this is based on the total amount of original material used, relative to the total size of the book or article that is being quoted.

Unfortunately, there is no consensus on just what percentage constitutes plagiarism.

Much of the debate has been focused within academia, with many universities relying on plagiarism checkers such as TurnItIn. These checkers often limit the amount of directly-quoted text to 15% or less — however, this may still be too much if everything quoted is one continuous block of text. Some more stringent universities raise red flags if more than seven consecutive words of text show up in a paper that’s run through a plagiarism checker. For a few, the limit is even less: five words.

None of this is to say that an author can’t use the text, only that a citation needs to be included to give proper credit to the original.

The bottom line here is that when in doubt, it’s best to give credit to another author — even if it’s just for an idea.

Dr. Curtis Newbold is an Associate Professor of Communication at Westminster College, where he oversees the Master of Strategic Communications program. In addition to teaching many courses on communications, he has written extensively about the fair use of photographs. He has outlined the criteria that authors should consider when deciding if a photo can be used. A more detailed breakdown can be found on his website, but here are a few examples of photographs that can be used:

Pictures that you took yourself that are based on your own concept, for which you own all the rights. More on this later.

How can I determine what pictures I can legally use?

Pictures that someone else took, but which you are using in “an education or research setting, for limited non-profit uses.” Dr. Newbold also notes that copyrighted images shouldn’t be printed for personal or decorative purposes.

Pictures someone else has taken and you’ve secured permission to use, or for which you’ve purchased the rights (such as through a stock photo company or from a photographer).

Sara Hawkins is an attorney specializing in advertising, social media, and intellectual property. According to her, if you aren’t sure whether the photographer has released their rights to a picture, it’s best not to use it until you’ve made that determination or received express permission to use the image. There are still a lot of grey areas with plenty of exceptions. Authors are always encouraged to take as much caution as possible when dealing with potential copyright issues.

Are there any restrictions on using images that I’ve taken myself?

There are a number of issues at play there. First, if you want to publish a picture of your own, you need to consider whether the photo was truly original (not designed to resemble or mimic someone else’s photograph).

Second, you need to consider where you were when the photograph was taken to decide whether it may include anything proprietary. Generally speaking, if the picture was taken in your own home or while you were in public, then this shouldn’t be a concern.

If my pictures are of other people, do I need to get permission from the people in the pictures? What if they’re old pictures and I can’t locate the people in them?

In cases where authors want to use images that they took of other people, there are a few issues at play, including privacy laws and potential defamation or misappropriation, according to the Digital Media Law Project.

First, most states prohibit the use of “someone else’s name, likeness, or other personal attributes without permission for an exploitative purpose.” This would violate the person’s “right of publicity” — their right to make money from their name or likeness. This concern arises most often with advertising or other promotional materials. However, it can also be the case in other works like books or articles, which an author is publishing for commercial benefit. Here again, it’s better to be safe and get permission before using images.

What if I want to use an interview I did with someone in my book?

When conducting interviews to use as source material for a book, it’s a good idea to have interviewees sign a written release acknowledging that their responses may be published. If you are recording an interview, it can be sufficient to include a stated acknowledgment on the recording that the interview is being recorded, and the interviewee understands that what they say may be published. By doing so, they not only acknowledge that they’re being recorded but also that they give their consent for the interviewer to use their quotes for publication.

The same principle goes if you plan to conduct recorded interviews by phone.

There are some strict laws about phone recordings. Kelly Yamanouchi, a business reporter for the Denver Post writing for the Society of Professional Journalists, reminds us that “most states require only one-party consent to record. However, 12 states and the Commonwealth of Puerto Rico require the consent of two or more parties.” She goes on to note that, in these cases, it’s not only important to get permission to publish responses in an interview, but also “to take great care when securing permission to record.”

Her suggestion is that writers first ask the interviewee whether it’s OK to record the conversation. Then, after recording begins, it’s a good idea to have the interviewee put their permissions — both for the recording and for publication of their responses — on the record.

What if the person I interviewed has passed away, or I want to use a picture of someone who is no longer alive?

If someone that you’ve interviewed or photographed has since passed away, the right to sue dies with them. However, if you want to use someone else’s photograph, it doesn’t matter whether a person in the photograph has died — you still need to get the photographer’s permission. In fact, even if the photographer has died, their estate can still own the rights to their pictures for decades after their death.

Writing a book is no small or straightforward undertaking.

There are a number of legal issues to weigh, both with regard to the relationships between author, ghostwriter, and publisher, as well as the nature of the material to be published, source material to be quoted, and pictures to be included.


While issues in the former category can be addressed explicitly in a collaboration agreement negotiated and signed upfront, working with seasoned professionals can go a long way toward resolving issues in both of these areas.

Logical Linking in Writing

One of my biggest pet peeves is prepositional phrases that don’t logically link to the rest of the sentence. I see this writing practice all the time, and it usually happens because:

a) the writer is trying to improve sentence flow, or

b) the writer is trying to cram extra information into a paragraph and can’t figure out where to put it.

Here’s an example:

“With more than 7,000 members, our organization works with the trade industry to emphasize a seamless security-conscious environment.”

OK, so on first glance it seems like a harmless enough sentence, but when you really start to look at it, we have two completely different unrelated pieces of information stuck together:

1) We have 7,000 members.
2) Our organization works with the trade industry.

The writer is simply trying to force these two items to be friends because he/she thought it sounded good.

The logical link between these two pieces of information simply isn’t there.

What we really mean is something like:

“Leveraging input from over 7,000 members, our organization works directly with the trade industry to develop seamless security-conscious environments.”

Now we understand how the 7,000 members tie into developing the seamless security-conscious environments.

Of course, the sentence is still a bit of a mouthful, that’s a lot of info for a reader to digest all at once. So, you’ll probably want to split it up. You could try…

“Our organization works directly with the trade industry. We leverage input from over 7,000 members to develop seamless security-conscious environments.”

Ahh…much easier to read!

Words that Contradict Themselves

If you have read our blogs Why the English Language is a Writer’s Nightmare and Are There Any Synonyms for Synonym?, you are well aware that we think the English language is crazy and confusing.

But, have you ever taken the time to actually stop and think about just how crazy it is?

We have way too many words that are either spelled the same way, but pronounced differently (read and read, advocate and advocate), or are pronounced the same way, but are spelled differently and have completely different meanings (to, too, and two; there, their, and they’re).

And don’t even get me started on all of the words that are have multiple different meanings, such as current, reservation, and patient.

Perhaps most confusing, though, are the word that are their own opposites. As demonstrated in this great article from MentalFloss, these words—known officially as contronyms— take the chaos of the English language to a whole other level.

Take the word left, for example. Depending on how it is used, it can either mean that something is remaining, or that it has departed:

The girls left the party, so only the boys were left.

Buckle is another good example. It can either mean to fasten something together (with a belt), or to bend or collapse from pressure:

He buckled his seatbelt, but it buckled under the pressure of the crash.

Honestly, with this kind of madness, it’s a wonder that anyone can learn English!

So, next time you hear a non-native speaker butcher our language, keep these things in mind and take it easy on them. After all, the fact that you can understand them well enough to pinpoint the few things they messed up on is nothing short of a miracle!

Fun Thanksgiving Facts From The Writers For Hire

Did you know that the day after Thanksgiving is the busiest day of the year for plumbers?

Or how about the fact that the woman famous for writing “Mary Had a Little Lamb” was also known as the “Mother of Thanksgiving,” after her four-decade campaign to get the holiday re-instated nationwide?

With the first Thanksgiving dating all the way back to 1621, it’s no wonder that the holiday is surrounded by all kinds of fun and interesting facts and stories. And, since we at TWFH love good holiday stories, we have discovered some great articles to help make this Turkey Day even more festive.

If you need some entertaining facts to share at the dinner table this Thanksgiving, check out this fun article we found from BestLife.com. From interesting tidbits about the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade to surprising information about a beloved Christmas carol (hint: It was not originally intended to be sung at Christmastime), you are sure to find something to amuse all of your guests.

If you are looking for something new and different to cook this year, you may find this article from insider.com to be very helpful. They have scoured the country and came up with a list of 16 of the most popular regional Thanksgiving dishes.

It may not surprise you that Texas is known for deep-fried turkey. But, have you ever heard of eating sauerkraut on Thanksgiving? It seems that due to the large German-American population in Maryland, sauerkraut is a staple in their Thanksgiving feasts.

And while you might expect the Italian-American families of New York and New Jersey to serve pasta alongside their turkey, the idea of eating Frog Eye salad in the Southwest may come as a bit of a shock. (Don’t worry, though, there are no actual frog eyes involved in the creation of this sweet salad).

And, of course, no holiday would be complete without a silly online quiz to put you in a festive mood. So, be sure to check out this article from Boys Life, and let us know what Thanksgiving food you are!

HOW TO KICK-OFF A WRITING PROJECT: PART THREE – GATHERING INFORMATION

The team is in place, and the kick-off meeting ( or kick-off call) is over. Now comes the content.

You probably have a good idea of what you need from everyone. You’ll find, however, that different colleagues require different levels of engagement. Your main challenge may well be dealing with various comfort levels when it comes to writing or, as the old saying goes, “putting pen to paper.”

Writers on your team no doubt stand ready to tackle whatever they receive. But first — as project, marketing, or content manager — you will want to establish some guidelines for them. That’s the easy part – underscoring adherence to the company’s style guide, industry-specific terminology, and third-party guidelines such as AP and APA.

Gathering the information you need from subject matter experts (SMEs) will require much more effort. How do you get them on board and help them help you? The kick-off meeting should have covered the basics of the writing process but, for some SMEs, more intensive follow-up, and perhaps some hand-holding, will be needed.

You’ll find that some SMEs are more receptive to producing content than others. Some may be active bloggers and regular contributors to company newsletters, for example. Their areas of expertise probably are already familiar to you, and it will be easy to engage them. Others may be much less comfortable or familiar with writing or working with writers.

Start out by considering the best approach to getting the information you need from your SMEs. Is it more efficient, or most convenient, to have a group meeting? Do you need to chat with individuals one-on-one informally or schedule formal interviews? Check out this article on writing with SMEs for tips on engaging SMEs, from the most reluctant writers to the more accomplished.

Your approach will vary, of course, depending on the product, the timeline, and the personalities involved. Use your best judgment, but don’t hesitate to enlist the help of colleagues in other departments who’ve worked with your company’s SMEs.

Best practices for working with SMEs  

Whether it’s you or someone else on your team that will be collecting information, here are some best practices for working with SMEs:

At the start of a group meeting, review the project’s format and explain what you need: comments, notes, emails, or content they may already have on hand.

If you’re conducting formal one-on-one interviews, send out the questions ahead of time. SMEs are very busy people, and you don’t want to waste their time.

If you are not already familiar with an SME’s area of expertise, do some research before approaching them for information. In addition to a keyword Google search, you might check out their Linked-In profile and any recent blog postings, papers, or presentations they’ve done.

Keep the focus on the intended audience. Some expertise-specific questions might be:

  1. What are the demographics of your target audience?
  2. What has been your recent experience with this target audience? What challenges have you helped them overcome?
  3. How have industry developments affected this target audience, and what should they do about it?
  4. What are the biggest issues your target audience faces?
  5. How does your solution provide value to your target audience?
  6. What’s your view on what other industry experts and thought leaders are saying now?
  7. Manage expectations. Let your experts know that the final content may not look anything like what they’ve discussed or submitted. You can show your appreciation for their time and effort, though, by sharing a high-level draft for comment prior to hard copy publication or going live on social media.

Finally, arbitrate any differences between your writers and SMEs. And don’t forget to thank everyone profusely for their contributions. Remember, every professional has a reputation to protect and an ego that needs stroking every now and then!

The 108 Most Persuasive Words In The English Language

It’s a long known fact that the secret to persuasive writing isn’t in the adjectives, it’s in the verbs.

Copywriters know power verbs sell and convince.

Internally, we have a list of 108 verbs that we’ve been using for a good decade, and we recently thought we should share it with proper credit to the original author.

We found that although the list is being recirculated (and in many cases claimed as original by several different authors!), the original author is, in fact, nowhere to be found.

So, if anyone knows who wrote this, we’d love to know!

With or without the original author, it’s still a great list…here it is!

The 108 Most Persuasive Words In The English Language

According to legendary advertising man, Leo Burnet, “Dull and exaggerated ad copy is due to the excess use of adjectives.”

To prove it, he asked his staff to compare the number of adjectives in 62 ads that failed to the number of adjectives in Lincoln’s Gettysburg Address, and other age-old classics.

Here’s what he discovered:

Of the 12,758 words in the 62 failed ads, 24.1% were adjectives.

By direct comparison, Lincoln’s Gettysburg Address contains only 35 adjectives out of 268 immortal words – only 13.1% adjective-to-total-word ratio.

Winston Churchill’s famous “Blood, Sweat and Tears” speech rates even lower and has a 12.1% adjective ratio (81 adjectives from 667 words).

Burnett found that similar ratios applied to great works such as The Lord’s Prayer, the Ten Commandments, and the Preamble to the U.S. Constitution. Conclusion: Use more verbs, not adjectives.

Verbs increase the pulling-power and believability of ad copy.

That’s why it makes sense to keep this 108-VERB “CHEAT-SHEET” close-by whenever you begin to draft your next space ad, sales letter, Website, or email campaign.

Still unsure how to incorporate these verbs into your marketing campaign? Or, perhaps, you just don’t have the time?

Then consider hiring a team of professional copywriters to do it for you! Talented advertising and marketing writers can take mediocre content and use power verbs to turn it into engaging copy that meets goals and produces results.

How the Phrase “You Guys” Came to Be

As a writer, I have always struggled with second-person pronouns. Having spent the last few years working with a Houston-based writing team, I have taken to occasionally using “y’all” in my everyday speech. However, writing “y’all” seems to be too much of a commitment for me. As a non-Southerner, it somehow feels like I am being an imposter.

But, what other options do we have? “You guys” is generally the most common second-person plural pronoun used in the non-south, yet some people take offense to being referred to as “guys.” And although “thee” and “thine” were once common ways to refer to a singular person, with “ye” being the plural, those terms have since fallen out of fashion.

But, why did “thee” go away? And how did we start using “you guys” to address a group of people?

As this fascinating article from TIME explains, “thee” and “thine” lost their luster in the 18th century, due to the fact that they started being viewed as a disrespectful way to address a person. With “ye” evolving as a way of showing respect, the use of “thee” and “thine” became somewhat of a stigma.

As for the usage of “you guys,” it all goes back to an English Catholic “arch-villain” named Guy Fawkes, who, in November of 1605, devised a plot to explode 36 barrels of gunpowder underneath the House of Lords in London.

While his plot was folded (and he was caught) before he was able to blow a bunch of Protestant government officials to smithereens, the story of his scheme became widely known around England. Realizing how close they came to being killed, the trial, torture, and eventual execution of Guy Fawkes was not enough for the government officials. 

As an act of remembrance, Parliament approved a “Fifth of November Act,” or, “An act for publick thanksgiving to Almighty God every year on the fifth day of November.” This new holiday featured special religious services during the day and bonfires at night, to mock the man who hadn’t succeeded. In the bonfires, effigies of Guy Fawkes, the Pope, and anyone else deemed as archenemies of King James’ Protestant government, were burned. The effigies became known as “guys” after Guy Fawkes.

Over time, the term “guys” started being used to refer to actual people. More specifically, people who were viewed as low-class and depraved. Over time, though, the term evolved to include working-class men, and then, eventually, included all members of the male persuasion.

“Guys” became such a popular generic term for a group of people, that by the 20th century, even women started using the term. It was at that point that “guys” ceased to be a uniquely male term, and started being used for groups of people in general.

Language is constantly changing, though, so eventually “you guys” may be fully replaced with “y’all” (or even another term that we have not yet invented). Until then, depending on where we live, we may have to settle for being called “you guys.”